@jasmine@chaosfem.tw
she also wants suggestions on how to talk to her friends about hereditary traits and our child without outing me
@jasmine@chaosfem.tw
my suggestions so far have been
just call me "my ex" without connecting it to me. it was five years ago anyway
talk about heredity in terms of "the other biological parent" or "the sperm donor" instead of connecting it to me. i'm his parent either way