Jess👾
@JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange
@jasmine@chaosfem.tw The other alternative I suppose would be to agree on some sort of neutral sounding nickname and just don't use pronouns. "Oh yeah, back when J and I were together" or whatever like that.
Jess👾@JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange
@jasmine@chaosfem.tw Or just leave it as "I don't really care what you tell people I'm unlikely to know. If you want to be homophobic/biphobia and misgender me because you don't have the guts to say my ex-wife, that's on you. Deal with it. I'm not going to give you permission to deadname or misgender me, but you're an adult, do what you will."
