Manda@lucyruthe@mastodon.social
@FediTips@social.growyourown.services
Being up front about community standards and what would give someone the boot would make a big difference. Then I could make an educated decision about whether that works for me.
But I'll be honest, just waiting to see if I'm approved by someone else already feels culturally loaded in an awkward way. Reminds me of lots of ways I've had a bad time.
Fedi.Tips@FediTips@social.growyourown.services
@lucyruthe@mastodon.social
It should be showing you the rules on the website, for example here are the rules on my server: https://social.growyourown.services/about
You don't need to be a member to see the rules on other servers 🙂