Brutkey

Ms. Que Banh
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party

I deserve an equally amazing, courageous partner in life. I won't settle for less than what I know is deserved for me.

That's why I don't waste other people's time & won't go on 2nd dates often. I know who I am & I know what kind of partner is compatible with me.

I'm 50 years old now. I don't waste my own irreplaceable time on anyone who isn't really compatible with me.

#GenX #LifeAt50 #Dating

TanekRune
@TanekRune@mstdn.ca

@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party
I made a lot of dumb choices in my youth in regards to never really going on dates. Someone I knew would just be like, "wanna date?" and I would feel bad to say no and convince myself I could give them a chance. Then I would be in a committed relationship until they usually broke with me or cheated and left.

Turns out I just never had a word for asexual growing up and that would have solved so many things for me to have the concepts we can talk about now.

I am likely to chuck my shoe at the next person to so much as infer that I just haven't met the right person yet, though.


Ms. Que Banh
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party

@TanekRune@mstdn.ca
"Turns out I just never had a word for asexual growing up and that would have solved so many things for me to have the concepts we can talk about now."

I'm not asexual but respect those who identify as such. I understand why you'd have struggled, being asexual & not knowing what that was - back then.

TanekRune
@TanekRune@mstdn.ca

@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party
I hope all your future dates feature so much less ableism and/or assumption <3 like, preferably -100%.