Golden Retriever GF@GoldenRetrieverGF@blahaj.zone
I've seen a lot of information the past couple of days about Trans Women coming out 10 years later than their counterparts. I want to be super transparent about the fact that AFAB queers receive discrimination. Trans men are often erased from conversation. These are all super important. I don't want to erase all of that. But I really do need to be allowed to talk about my experience.
I was talking to my bi guy best friend who came out the year before me in front ot the bi gal that came out the year before him. Talking about what we did to eachother, the cruelty, the homophobia because we were terrified, receiving constant bullying and we needed somewhere to put the stress. I remember weeping on my bed, holding eachother, as he and I apologized and forgave eachother. It was on eachother. She was, however, baffled.
Her family accepted her with open arms. My boy friend's father wept. Several of my family members tried to get me booted from my family. A couple of them succeeded.
I remember my trans boyfriend looking me in the eyes saying,
"Taylor, I want you to listen. I came out to my father. He knows I bring queers home. He told me if he ever found out I was dating a [ Trans woman ], he would kill her in front of me to prove a point. He cannot know about us."
The acronym of LGBT in every culture the G is the word for hatred of gay men in that area. LSBT here in Germany. In any heirarchy, criminals will be punished. The different will be ostracized, but understand this. In a made up religion like the Cis Hetero Patriarchy, if you intend to maintain the charade of normalcy, to prop up your made up reality-your clergy-you cannot allow a heretic to live.
#lgbt #bigotry