Transfem in their mid-30s, very queer, not very neurotypical, sometimes deranged.
We're plural, this account is used by: - erin (she/her, they/them), fronts most of the time, much less dry and distant in person than in writing. - Eileen (she/her), rave enjoyer, switchy painslut (and other kinds of slut), wrote the current version of this bio, - eon (it/its), very rarely active.
This is our only fedi account. All kinds of things we think of and do end up here. Usually it's a mix of gay nonsense, kink, travel and cooking.
We used to do a lot of "cool" tech stuff in the past, but these days we're looking for other things to do in life - like, say, actually having a life. Posts about cool tech might still happen here occasionally, it's just not the focus or goal anymore.
Minors DNI, sorry, this is not a place for you.
We do DIY transfem HRT, we know how to make injectable and transdermal estradiol. Please reach out if you have trouble accessing HRT or just want to know more about it - we might be able to help.
We travel quite a lot - mostly in Germany and the Netherlands, but we're interested in visiting other places in Europe. We like cooking in return for a place to stay during travel. If you enjoy good food (and, optionally, cuddles) and would like us to visit, drop a DM.
Content warnings to expect here: lewd stuff, kink, food, mental health, disability, trans medical issues, trans social issues, therapeutic and recreational use of psychoactive substances. Please complain loudly if a content warning is missing on something that should be covered.
Some stuff we posted that may be interesting: Projects:
telling someone that theyโre falling in with the wrong crowd wonโt do anyone any good if you donโt also put real effort into making sure they actually have a different group to hang out with and figure out why did they feel like they donโt have it in the first place. especially if you thought that you are that group.
this is not related to any current events - itโs a thought Iโve been going back to for over a year now and found a good way to put into words just now - and probably wonโt be seen by any of the people I might be thinking of, Iโm pretty sure none of them follow me anymore.
but perhaps itโll be useful to someone else now, so there you have it.
โIโd like to end by telling you my hopes for the future. I hope that Iโll grow old, [โฆ] I hope that Iโll see younger people have opportunities that I didโt, and that I wonโt be too jealous. [โฆ] I hope that this is not the cleverest or most compassionate that Iโll ever be, but that Iโll continue to change.โ
โ Abigail Thorn, 2024-05-10, thoughts on her future after transitioning.
this is easily the most important, meaningful and personally significant thing I have read in a very long time:
โThe best friends wonโt ever be jealous of your success, they will celebrate with you. And your life will be richer for celebrating their victories too. Good friends will gently tell you when youโre being a dickhead, and remind you who you are when youโre getting lost. Theyโll fight for you and comfort you and buy you cider and take the piss and drag you through the dark times when youโre ready to give it all up.โ
I wish someone told me this, say, a year ago. maybe Iโd have realized some things earlier. maybe Iโd have reevaluated my opinion of someone before they had a chance to prove this by counterexample.
telling someone that theyโre falling in with the wrong crowd wonโt do anyone any good if you donโt also put real effort into making sure they actually have a different group to hang out with and figure out why did they feel like they donโt have it in the first place. especially if you thought that you are that group.
this is not related to any current events - itโs a thought Iโve been going back to for over a year now and found a good way to put into words just now - and probably wonโt be seen by any of the people I might be thinking of, Iโm pretty sure none of them follow me anymore.
but perhaps itโll be useful to someone else now, so there you have it.
โIโd like to end by telling you my hopes for the future. I hope that Iโll grow old, [โฆ] I hope that Iโll see younger people have opportunities that I didโt, and that I wonโt be too jealous. [โฆ] I hope that this is not the cleverest or most compassionate that Iโll ever be, but that Iโll continue to change.โ
โ Abigail Thorn, 2024-05-10, thoughts on her future after transitioning.
this is easily the most important, meaningful and personally significant thing I have read in a very long time:
โThe best friends wonโt ever be jealous of your success, they will celebrate with you. And your life will be richer for celebrating their victories too. Good friends will gently tell you when youโre being a dickhead, and remind you who you are when youโre getting lost. Theyโll fight for you and comfort you and buy you cider and take the piss and drag you through the dark times when youโre ready to give it all up.โ
I wish someone told me this, say, a year ago. maybe Iโd have realized some things earlier. maybe Iโd have reevaluated my opinion of someone before they had a chance to prove this by counterexample.
erin // Eileen