just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)
transfem in her 30s, figuring shit out live 
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just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)oops, you misgendered someone and they corrected you! it's okay, it happens sometimes.
here's what you do:
- apologize
- try not to do it again
here's what you don't do:
- say "actually, it's a gender neutral term"
- or "I call other [gender]s this all the time and they don't mind"
- or whatever other bullshit you're thinking of to dodge responsibility
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)god I love it when girls
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)EaaS
Eeping as a Service
pay me (food, care) to cutely sleep in your bed and keep it warm. cuddles/affection optional but encouraged
oh, I guess I wouldn't mind being a pet after all 
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)am I ace if I just wanna cuddle/snuggle creatures and maybe if sex happens that'd be neat?
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)oops, you misgendered someone and they corrected you! it's okay, it happens sometimes.
here's what you do:
- apologize
- try not to do it again
here's what you don't do:
- say "actually, it's a gender neutral term"
- or "I call other [gender]s this all the time and they don't mind"
- or whatever other bullshit you're thinking of to dodge responsibility
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)god I love it when girls
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)EaaS
Eeping as a Service
pay me (food, care) to cutely sleep in your bed and keep it warm. cuddles/affection optional but encouraged
oh, I guess I wouldn't mind being a pet after all
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)am I ace if I just wanna cuddle/snuggle creatures and maybe if sex happens that'd be neat?
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)so I think I at least subtly implied I broke up with my gf but I don't think I explicitly said so. so yeah, after 7y we had "the talk" and now we're just kind of living like roommates and it's actually been really good??? it feels like sisterhood, at least I think this is what sisterhood feels like. she even talks to me about the guys she's seeing and chatting with (at my invitation ofc) and it's honestly lovely to see, I'm really happy for her and proud of us for handling this the way we are. 
as for my search efforts, I've met some lovely creatures on the internet that I've been chatting with and loving on/with and it's been really fulfilling for me. hopefully one day I'll meet some nice creatures in dirtspace* but for now I'm at least not feeling as alone as I would have expected
* if you live in northern California and wanna cuddle or something hmu 👀
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)communication is hot 
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)aaaaaaaa too many self-care tasks not enough spoons
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)I didn't expect nail strengthening polish to actually tangibly improve my nails after like, two uses but I'm here for it.
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)brain simultaneously full and empty
just diz :trans_verify::lesbian_verify: (moved)I guess this is true about most things in the universe, everything is full of something, we just say some things are empty when it's full of less desirable things.
see also: my brain