Biohazardous Catfox :therian:@Elizafox@social.treehouse.systems
(Not going into fix-it mode is something I am working on in therapy, something something raised to need to fix everything because that was my job)
Biohazardous Catfox :therian:@Elizafox@social.treehouse.systems
Anyway my opinion is:
If someone doesn’t vibe with you, don’t be afraid to mute them and assert your boundaries. It is okay to say “I am not going to argue this with you.” It’s okay to say nothing at all even. If they continue, block them.
Don’t make a spectacle of it.
Just do it.
This goes for anywhere, anytime, anyplace.
Boundaries piss some people off. Well. That’s their problem. If they hate you for asserting a boundary, that means they believe their will is more important than your boundaries. You do NOT want nor need the friendship of these people.