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Nat
@nat@kind.social

Humans have a deep need for belonging. When we lack the intimate, supportive community that feeds this part of us, we are easier to manipulate, and less effective in our activism. Many of us try to make up for an inner sense of rejection and loneliness by throwing ourselves into our work—and activism is a particularly attractive option when we lack meaning and belonging in our personal lives.

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Nat
@nat@kind.social

Of course, activism can be a wonderful way to connect with others; the important thing is that we lay sustainable foundations. The quickest way to burn out is to lean on complex, amorphous systems to find validation and satisfaction. If anything, this is work where we must have great wells of emotional resilience to keep going in the face of defeat.

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Nat
@nat@kind.social

So how can we cultivate genuine nurture—and discern how, and where, to find it?

1) Nurture can come from within. Self-compassion, re-parenting, and many other forms of spirituality or healing work can be done on our own.

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Nat
@nat@kind.social

2) Nurture thrives in authentic relationships. The freer you are to be yourself, to show your real fears, and to be vulnerable, the more you're able to share and receive nurture—including asking for what you need.

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