jexner 🏳️🌈
@jexner@tooting.ch
Wait... not sure how, but would anybody know: in a comparison between someone neuro-vanilla and someone with ADHD, would the neuro-vanilla person experience sex differently, all other things being equal? Less dopamine == less pleasure?
#ADHD
Pomegranate Pirate 🏳️🌈🏴☠️
@Pomegranatepirate@kolektiva.social
@jexner@tooting.ch other than being able to make a scale and measure pleasure receptors of both types of people, I think this is a complicated question. ;) Maybe a neuro-vanilla person could learn to be as a neuro-spicy person and utterly relish and indulge in sex in a total sensory and physical way (beyond just genitals touching). Each could have hang ups and baggage, Each could really enjoy sex. I'm guessing it might be a percentage thing.... a higher percentage of neuro-spicy can and do enjoy sex more because of a dopamine drive, need for stimulation, oral fixations... sensory play, kink etc. Maybe we get more bang for the buck? We have whole nutritionally complex sex? So we are a seeded multi-grain bread, compared to white bread????
Or given neuro-spicy folks intersections with other rad communities (being queer, or kinky) we have learned better behaviors and communication, worked harder in life than those of the neuro-vanilla?
