Thread | Brutkey

It would be odd, even cruel, to blast party anthems at a funeral. But the private thrill of an album release, or a Superbowl win, or a damned fine cup of coffee is not an act of betrayal. And the alternative - universalized austerity until the world is perfect according to a set of twitchy goalposts - is both unworkable and historically impossible. No such time has ever existed.

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JA Westenberg
@Daojoan@mastodon.social

Part of living well is the cultivation of joy that is not contingent on the disappearance of all misfortune. If we wait for that, we'll never bloody celebrate anything at all.

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JA Westenberg
@Daojoan@mastodon.social

Life is lived on overlapping frequencies. One of us is falling in love while another is getting told they have cancer. A parent somewhere is watching their child take a first step, even as someone else buries theirs. Trying to synchronize the emotional weather of billions is a doomed endeavor. Better to accept that joy and grief will always coexist, and each gives contour to the other.

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Peter Jakobs ⛵

@pjakobs@mastodon.green

@Daojoan@mastodon.social I love this analogy, overlapping frequencies, not the same frequency nor the same phase - just on the same spectrum

JA Westenberg
@Daojoan@mastodon.social

If you find yourself unmoved by the latest Taylor Swift release, that’s fine. But the person who is moved - who finds in it a brief reprieve from their own troubles or from the heavy news cycle - is not your enemy. They're braving the same churning sea as you, just with a different sail.

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