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riley (yuzu) 🌙@yuzupup@woof.tech
if you're scheduling something with someone or someone is scheduling something with you: date, time, your availability over a reasonably large time period should be the first words you exchange.
i have folks telling me "yeah we should hang!" and the conversation goes something like this:
me: "great! when are you free? i can do stuff pretty much any time after 5 PM most days"
them: "tuesday"
me: "ok, does 6 PM sound good?"
them: "oh that doesn't work for me"
me: "what about thursday at 6 PM?"
them: "sorry, busy then too"
tell me your availability and give me a day and time i said i'm available so we can move forward. don't make me guess and check every time on your schedule. it makes me feel like i'm the only one who cares about making it happen and it's really frustrating.
🌙 riley (yuzu) 🌙@yuzupup@woof.tech
if you want to spend time with someone, put effort into finding a time with them. it's a two way street, and it takes all of a few words more to make the experience better for you both.