@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party
@grrrr_shark@supervolcano.angryshark.eu Good on you. I also suffered from years of internalized ableism. I am so done with ableism. I am more understanding & less ruthless with folks who own their ableism & are willing to work at being comrades with disabled folks. I'm not as kind to folks who show me that they're unwilling to challenge, address & destroy their own ableism.
@grrrr_shark@supervolcano.angryshark.eu
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party Exactly. Sigh.
It's exhausting.
You deserve someone who meets your standards and you have the right to ask for that and accept nothing less.