@tayfonay@beige.party
Random poll.
Does your gut βsomethingβs bad hereβ signal go off when youβre around certain people? What do you typically do?
Random poll.
Does your gut βsomethingβs bad hereβ signal go off when youβre around certain people? What do you typically do?
@tayfonay@beige.party I'm known for immediately judging someone in business or similar circumstances within 5-15 seconds of meeting and shaking hands.
Smarmy sales-dudes and bro-dudes go immediately into my mental spam folder, and I often let my colleagues know of my assessment as soon as the subject is out of ear shot.
If you try to project confidence but havenβt first established trust, your efforts will backfire. No one wants to end up respected but disliked. As Cuddy said, βIf someone youβre trying to influence doesnβt trust you, youβre not going to get very far; in fact, you might even elicit suspicion, because you come across as manipulative.βhttps://www.weforum.org/stories/2017/07/these-are-the-snap-judgements-people-make-when-they-first-meet-you/
@tayfonay@beige.party Be ready to make a vanishing act on myself @SnowyCA@social.vivaldi.net