Faith 🧋
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Little reminder that "I don't like the vibe" is a perfectly valid reason to not be friends with someone or to not be part of some group or community.
In fact, it's one of the best reasons. It's often far better than anything which ends with "I think they're bad people".
In that Western mindset, we feel the need to justify these things to sate our RSD or whatever. "Those people are having fun. Why aren't I having fun with them?" But, if you think, even subconsciously, that only "those are bad people" is a valid reason to not like someone or not like a group, what you end up doing is making up offenses to be mad about. That's not fair to them and, honestly, is not fair to yourself, either, because it cements your dislike to the point where it may destroy relationships or prevent them in the future.
If it's not your vibe, it's not your vibe. Just move on.