Richard "mtfnpy" Harman (he/him)@xabean@infosec.exchange
Trying to help someone, who can't seem to ever get out of their own way, is a really painful experience.
They need help, can't see past themselves, are angry at you, the world, everything, and end up alienating all their friends.
It's such a lose/lose situation. The only winning move is not to play.