Gay Violet@violet@fedi.lesbianforest.club
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We've been through a bunch of bullshit over the years, so we like to make our boundaries pretty explicit. Here's a big list for us to pin on our profile.
Things we ask folks not to do, but aren't a huge deal:
* Don't flirt with any of us without asking, preferably in a DM or something. We don't read it very effectively and it can get messy.
* Generally cw things. If it's a common issue with folks, it probably needs a cw. We have PTSD and shit, we need those.
* Unsolicited advice is often an annoyance unless you know us.
* Not having pronouns of some kind in your bio. Yes, even if you're cis.
Things that get you blocked instantly:
* Do not try to RP with us without asking. I cannot believe this has to be a thing in 2023, but here we are.
* NFT/cryptocurrency chuds
* People who trust cops
* Outright fascists
* Being a landlord
* Being some kind of org or company.
* Bigotry with no plausible deniability
We want to make it clear that we don't shut out people we like politically disagree with, we shut out people that cause us harm or demand weird amounts of work from us.