If you want to argue with me about something I posted, it would be best to stick to what I actually post, not what you think your mental version of me is thinking.
E.g. If I say that one needs to assess oneβs own threat model, I AM NOT SAYING A THING ABOUT EVERYONEβS THREAT MODEL! If I say most peoplesβ phones are at higher risk from nasties near them than from US cops acting legally, I am absolutely NOT SAYING that US cops do not have a jones for hassling Black people, often illegally.
No need to empathize with others to acknowledge pain & oppose abuse.
Iβm never going to claim to understand the feelings of non-white or non-cis people. I canβt. I got a lot of gender-tinged peer abuse as a kid but it didnβt bite. A school counselor once called me βunnervingly stoic.β I wonβt ever feel constrained or oppressed by society for who I am.
And yet, I can still look at the world rationally & hear the truth of people who justifiably have such feelings, and fight their oppression.