Brutkey

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social
Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

To be clear I also do this and it frustrates me

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

It's not like it's normatively permissible in conversations to criticize people as much as we do on social media, which has always made me think, as soon as we're on social media we're being objectified and objectifying. But honestly hard to find work getting at this specific issue

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

It's mind-bending to me how many people are ready to criticize vs help you on social media and I often wonder if this is a true ratio experience or if it's distorted by the culture of social media and allowances of interactions, or what

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

They are working against your own psychology but they're doing a good job at it! They're exploiting the parts of you that respond to threat, and they're dangling always conditional belonging in front of you to convince you that you have to cling to groups and leaders and Technical Superstars that you secretly hate looking up to. The only way past this is seeing through it.

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

Knowledge workers having a good time and treating each other kindly and being inclusive about the future is actually so profoundly terrifying to the machine that they have to construct the most elaborate mental prison possible to convince you you can't be that way

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

I can't tell you all what to do with this whole thing you've built here but I CAN teach you to understand it and in my experience that really defangs it

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

Let's all go to church and recite the litany of the grind factory, lmfao. Let's spread our gospel to the children, no it's because they're "hardcore," not because they're tractable!! For sure the actions of a culture that has a strong handle on the human mind haha

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

imho, the machinery of myth-making is actually very easy to understand in this industry and it's not about burnout lol

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

@saraislet@infosec.exchange @mhoye@mastodon.social ...stance from the CEO quotes, when even similar qualitative work with a sample of very similar people surfaces a lot of conflicting opinions! I read these qual studies less as statements of ground truth and more as investigations into perceptions.

On the learning environments piece though, I do think this can be pretty lacking for a lot of devs and that paying attention to it is helpful. It's a stated value but I think cultures that truly incorporate it are rarer in tech.

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

@saraislet@infosec.exchange @mhoye@mastodon.social but I see your point that we should look to the natural behaviors of developers as a signal of what's easily and readily relevant to them though, and totally agree. I mean tool adoption is difficult and I don't like to take it as a proof of efficacy either (people can flock to stuff that is bad for them) but I think we're probably aligned on that.

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

@saraislet@infosec.exchange @mhoye@mastodon.social I understand why you're frustrated with the state of the conversation and evidence. I am too, and I agree that the "productivity" investigations are super lacking. Really, I engage with qualitative interview studies of this sort as interesting artifacts and mostly read the quotes while leaving the researcher frames as you know, their frame, which I like more in some cases than others. In this particular case I thought it was an interesting contrast to the assumed unanimous...

Cat Hicks
@grimalkina@mastodon.social

@saraislet@infosec.exchange @mhoye@mastodon.social ...stance from the CEO quotes, when even similar qualitative work with a sample of very similar people surfaces a lot of conflicting opinions! I read these qual studies less as statements of ground truth and more as investigations into perceptions.

On the learning environments piece though, I do think this can be pretty lacking for a lot of devs and that paying attention to it is helpful. It's a stated value but I think cultures that truly incorporate it are rarer in tech.