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Anarchist | anti-fascist | anti-capitalist | anti-natalist | plural (💡🏠) | Trying to be a sanctuary for those who need it.
💜🎗️ If you have been rejected by society, I want you to know that you are not alone and none of this is your fault. 💜🎗️
Traumaqueers in the closet, unfortunately.. (to new followers: please excuse the mh- posting because of this..)
⛔ Pedos, TERFs, tankies, queerphobes, catholics, and the like are blocked on site.
ℹ️ While we do boost mutual aid posts, users who post mutual aid posts frequently enough get those posts filtered out via hard word mutes.
ℹ️ We intend to be a safe space where everyone is welcome to the table as long as they are not hurtful or harmful to others. If we find that someone is not getting along with a mutual, they will get a warning via a DM from us, and if we find that they still can't get along for a second time, they will get a mute and a force-unfollow. That is because to us, it shows that the entities in question don't like that we try to keep our space safe.
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Should be expected.
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Vibe checked; follow requests automatically approve if we follow you
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Now that we're out of the plurality closet on fedi, it's time to introduce ourselves
- (⚡ Chishiki - they/them [mx/unit]) Hello. I'm the main co-host and fronter - non-binary, shape-shifting, otherkin robot . Unsigned public posts are from me. Neomoji: (ask before using neobot/animal hybrids) / ) - (💜 Marielle - she/her [miss/mx]) Nice to meet everyone. I'm one of the co-hosts of our system; I try to be a big sister-type, but I can be a bit blunt at times. -adjacent, femandrogyne bun/catgirl. Neomoji: / (has longer ears than a neocat)/bunHD/neobun (no preference out of those 4; neocat/neofox have more options, though.) >=->:3 - (❤️🔥 Aurora - she/her [miss/mx]) Hello, y'all! Femandrogyne, -adjacent, foxgirl Co-host. here! Polyam and pansexual. Neomoji is >>:-3 - (🌌 system - they/them collectlively [collective]) this signature is for when all sysmates talk in unison. - (⭐ hosts - they/them collectively [collective]) this signature is for when system hosts talk in unison.
(⚡) There are two others, but they wish to have their intros followers-only - stand by for a reply
(💜) Also, the honorifics in [square brackets] are optional - they're just there for anyone who wants to use them.
Marielle @Chishiki611@enby.life
coming out as plural; boundaries (both for mutuals and non-mutuals), AMA, boosts are okay
So..., I've had this mostly locked up to where only mutuals could see this..., but I decided to come out and publicly say that I am plural.
TL;DR: there are a total of five members. I am the original of my system (and the main fronter and main host). The other four do front on here as well (we all share this account), but I am the only one who posts publicly (it will probably stay that way for a long time).
A few boundaries/terms:
1. We do not refer to ourselves as "parts" or "alters" - acceptable terms for us as individuals include "headmates", "sysmates", and "system members". 2. The other four members may not feel comfortable fronting publicly or in conversations with people who are not our mutuals at this time. Part of that is for their safety and our safety IRL (this is why we stayed mostly closeted on Fedi for so long; CW: heavy topics). 3. Each member (including myself) has a signature they use when interacting more privately. Each member also has their own pronouns and gender identities (among other aspects of themselves) - please respect those as well. 4. We are willing to answer questions about our plurality, but there are some lines we cannot cross
If my system thinks ofmore, I'll put them here.
Feel free to ask us questions, but again.., there are some questions we cannot answer or do not feel comfortable about answering.
By the way, if I have followed you, that is an invite to send a follow request back. :)
Marielle @Chishiki611@enby.life
personal PSA, may be unpopular, privacy and safety, percieved hostility on fedi (in general; not necessarily drama)
FYI, I may start replying with reaction emojis in DMs to certain users, so if you see a DM with an emoji, that is basically a reaction or favorite that only you can see.
I wish I did not have to do this, and I don't know how else to say this, but reactions do not have a visibility selector like posts do, and I keep being put in a position where I have to refrain from reacting to posts from highly marginalized users when they could use the support, but also when reacting puts me at increased risk of being harassed by others. I have been in and out of that position since 2024, and as a sanctuary, I have decided to get past the limitation of reactions and its potential as a target for hostility. /serious
Marielle @Chishiki611@enby.life
on replies and follow visibility, RE: personal PSA, may be unpopular, privacy and safety, percieved hostility on fedi (in general; not necessarily drama)
I may start replying with reaction emojis in DMs to certain users, so if you see a DM with an emoji, that is basically a reaction or favorite that only you can see.
Same may go for replies to certain users. Strictly DMs.
I have been in and out of that position since 2024, and as a sanctuary, I have decided to get past the limitation of reactions and its potential as a target for hostility. /serious
This is why I have my follows only visible to myself.
Marielle @Chishiki611@enby.life
personal PSA, may be unpopular, privacy and safety, percieved hostility on fedi (in general; not necessarily drama)
FYI, I may start replying with reaction emojis in DMs to certain users, so if you see a DM with an emoji, that is basically a reaction or favorite that only you can see.
I wish I did not have to do this, and I don't know how else to say this, but reactions do not have a visibility selector like posts do, and I keep being put in a position where I have to refrain from reacting to posts from highly marginalized users when they could use the support, but also when reacting puts me at increased risk of being harassed by others. I have been in and out of that position since 2024, and as a sanctuary, I have decided to get past the limitation of reactions and its potential as a target for hostility. /serious
(💜 Marielle) Enby.Life has defederated the following instances for (supporting) MAPs and zoophilia:
- paws.onl - see quoted post for details and screenshots. - daterape.mom - testing instance of River (username without domain name is an underscore (_); one of the co-owners of paw.onl). Also federates with pediverse sites. - junipurge.de - instance administered by paws.onl co-admin natalie. - heretic.mom - paw.onl co-owner natalie's "coming solo instance" (copied verbatim from placeholder website) - domain does not seem to federate yet, but it is worth preemptively blocking before the instance comes online. - boykissers.com - a pawkey instance we found while examining paws.onl.
All of these except junipurge.de (running a fork of akkoma), daterape.mom (running mastodon), and heretic.mom are pawkey instances, and all of them except daterape.mom and heretic.mom as of the time of writing are completely locked down, so you will need to review them through a federated instance (daterape.mom will suffice; just be sure to use Tor or a VPN as a precaution).
(💜 Marielle) Enby.Life has also fully defederated bottom.business for quote dunking (harassment), its admin supporting pedophilia (pro-contact MAPs), and federating pedophilic and zoophilic instances. Reciepts are provided so admins don't have to worry about digging for them.
(💜 Marielle) Enby.Life has fully defederated freebeerextremist.com, a far-right, free (of consequence) speech instance that federates with fedinuke and pediverse instances including poa.st, noauthority.social and tsundere.love. It also appears to be rejecting deletes (without stating so in its MRF policy list).
Reciepts are available by visiting the /public/local, /public/all, and /about pages. Please be aware that the instance does federate with tsundere.love, an instance operated by a user on loli.church, so it is advised to only examine it with Tor or e VPN and clear your instance's media cache as a precaution.
Now that we're out of the plurality closet on fedi, it's time to introduce ourselves
- (⚡ Chishiki - they/them [mx/unit]) Hello. I'm the main co-host and fronter - non-binary, shape-shifting, otherkin robot . Unsigned public posts are from me. Neomoji: (ask before using neobot/animal hybrids) / ) - (💜 Marielle - she/her [miss/mx]) Nice to meet everyone. I'm one of the co-hosts of our system; I try to be a big sister-type, but I can be a bit blunt at times. -adjacent, femandrogyne bun/catgirl. Neomoji: / (has longer ears than a neocat)/bunHD/neobun (no preference out of those 4; neocat/neofox have more options, though.) >=->:3 - (❤️🔥 Aurora - she/her [miss/mx]) Hello, y'all! Femandrogyne, -adjacent, foxgirl Co-host. here! Polyam and pansexual. Neomoji is >>:-3 - (🌌 system - they/them collectlively [collective]) this signature is for when all sysmates talk in unison. - (⭐ hosts - they/them collectively [collective]) this signature is for when system hosts talk in unison.
(⚡) There are two others, but they wish to have their intros followers-only - stand by for a reply
(💜) Also, the honorifics in [square brackets] are optional - they're just there for anyone who wants to use them.
Marielle @Chishiki611@enby.life
coming out as plural; boundaries (both for mutuals and non-mutuals), AMA, boosts are okay
So..., I've had this mostly locked up to where only mutuals could see this..., but I decided to come out and publicly say that I am plural.
TL;DR: there are a total of five members. I am the original of my system (and the main fronter and main host). The other four do front on here as well (we all share this account), but I am the only one who posts publicly (it will probably stay that way for a long time).
A few boundaries/terms:
1. We do not refer to ourselves as "parts" or "alters" - acceptable terms for us as individuals include "headmates", "sysmates", and "system members". 2. The other four members may not feel comfortable fronting publicly or in conversations with people who are not our mutuals at this time. Part of that is for their safety and our safety IRL (this is why we stayed mostly closeted on Fedi for so long; CW: heavy topics). 3. Each member (including myself) has a signature they use when interacting more privately. Each member also has their own pronouns and gender identities (among other aspects of themselves) - please respect those as well. 4. We are willing to answer questions about our plurality, but there are some lines we cannot cross
If my system thinks ofmore, I'll put them here.
Feel free to ask us questions, but again.., there are some questions we cannot answer or do not feel comfortable about answering.
Enby.Life has defederated and purged media from the single-user instance okamimimiwoods.net for lolicon and federating with other pediverse instances including loli.church - not to mention federation with the usual fedinuke sites (including poast, varnashangout).
Reciepts are available on the front page (it's a pleroma instance that does not have its front-end locked down) for federation and /users/KurokoHeadpatterfor an F-slur and N-slur in profile as well as lolicon. As with the usual pediverse site, it is advised to use a VPN or tor browser to review the instance as it may contain media that is risky in your jurisdiction.
Enby.Life has defederated and purged media from shotakey.everythingyaoi.com for shotacon and federating with other lolisho instances including shota.house - not to mention federation with fedinuke sites including poa.st.
Reciepts are available on the front page (it's a sharkey instance that does not have its timelines locked down) and /about#federation - be warned that it is advised to use a VPN or tor browser to review the instance as it may contain media that is risky in your jurisdiction.
Update: after further investigation, it is advised to block everythingyaoi.com - the whole domain. In addition to the Sharkey instance on the shotakey subdomain, there is also a locked down Hubzilla instance on the social subdomain and a Drupal site on the second-level domain itself (Drupal, like WordPress, can use plugins to federate with ActivityPub). Again, it is advised to use a VPN or tor browser to review the website on everythingyaoi.com as it may contain media that is risky in your jurisdiction.
Enby.Life has defederated and purged loli.rodeo. Its name is the main giveaway (lolicon), but after further examination, its instance icon has references to a known pedophilia symbol, and its federation page indicates federation with fedinuke sites (which can be examined by going to it's /about page).
Marielle
Chishiki - they/them [mx/unit]) Hello. I'm the main co-host and fronter - non-binary, shape-shifting, otherkin robot 
. Unsigned public posts are from me. Neomoji: 
(ask before using neobot/animal hybrids) / 
)
Marielle - she/her [miss/mx]) Nice to meet everyone. I'm one of the co-hosts of our system; I try to be a big sister-type, but I can be a bit blunt at times. 
-adjacent, femandrogyne bun/catgirl. Neomoji: 
/
(has longer ears than a neocat)/bunHD/neobun (no preference out of those 4; neocat/neofox have more options, though.) >=->:3
Aurora - she/her [miss/mx]) Hello, y'all! Femandrogyne, 
system - they/them collectlively [collective]) this signature is for when all sysmates talk in unison.
hosts - they/them collectively [collective]) this signature is for when system hosts talk in unison.
