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Nat
@nat@kind.social

Come for the memes, stay for the biting social commentary.

Writer, teacher, and new parent, occupying Duwamish land on the Salish sea. Queer genderfluid anarchist with complex PTSD and fibromyalgia. Relationships, power, hierarchy, intersectionality, mental and emotional wellness, and my very weird childhood as a homeschooled Quiverfull kid who escaped the cult at 18.

old account: @nat@partyon.xyz


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Nat
@nat@kind.social

Seems like it's time for a lil #intro post.

I've been on Mastodon for two years. I fled my old account in the process of escaping my abuser, who ran the server. My toddler & I have been in hiding & I've been in court for much of this year.

I've trained as a playwright & I now blog at "Impure Leftist," a project to make activism practical and meaningful.

I also love Tarot, yoga, Brazilian Zouk partner dance, language learning, and board gaming.

Welcome & thanks for being here!

A white person with short hair and glasses smiles at the camera while carrying a child in a back carrier. They are surrounded by lush green foliage in a forested area, with a dirt path visible in the background.
Nat
@nat@kind.social

#MUTUALAID FOR DV SURVIVOR & TODDLER

Grateful to have the latest legal bill paid; now focusing on housing, transportation, and upcoming legal costs. We're being given a car & will need money for insurance & repairs.

0/1500 Car fund
0/4000 Legal fund
0/6000 Safe housing fund

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car
https://paypal.me/natoleander
venmo/cashapp @ natsmith89

#MutualAidRequest #queermutualaid #transmutualaid #transcrowdfund #disabilitymutualaid #disabledmutualaid #helpfolkslive2025 #lgbtq

Nat
@nat@kind.social

EMERGENCY #MUTUALAID - get blind wheelchair user back into assisted living

The good news—we reached the halfway point!!

The bad news—it's taken 7 weeks to get this far and we have only FIVE DAYS left.

We need a huge push to get Aurora over the line. She is NOT safe if she ends up out on the street again, y'all.

1279/2414

PayPal.me/melissarainbow
AuroraEloise Venmo
$AuroraEloise CashApp

#disabled #disability #disabilitymutualaid #disabilitycrowdfund #helpfolkslive2026 #mutualaidrequest

Facebook message text: Yes, I'm so sorry. There's been a winter storm that knocked out my power for a couple of days. It got restored very early this morning. I'm so sorry for my lack of contact but I am so damn grateful for you, thank you for staying up on this for me. We've raised $1,224. I still need $1,190. I have until Friday the 30th at the end of the business day. I'll be doing what I can over here and keep you updated when things change. 💜
Nat
@nat@kind.social

🚨🚨🚨🚨 CRITICAL EMERGENCY #MUTUALAID - Blind & physically disabled woman facing homelessness with TWO DAYS to raise over $1k 🚨🚨🚨🚨

Last chance for Aurora to get back into assisted living so she can stay safely housed. Her survival & safety are extremely endangered when she's unhoused.

PLEASE BOOST, DONATE, POST. Down to the wire here!

1279/2414

PayPal.me/melissarainbow
AuroraEloise on Venmo
$AuroraEloise on CashApp

#disabled #disability #mutualaidrequest #disabilitycrowdfund #fundraiser

Facebook Messenger conversation between Aurora Eloise and Nat. Nat: Aw ok I'm bummed to hear that. I know we're cutting it really close. What happens if you don't hit the goal? Aurora: I'll be put back on a waiting list. The average wait is typically about 12 to 18 months. My disabilities are a slight advantage, moving me up the list to an estimated wait of 8 to 10 months. I'd be able to stay where I am until the end of February, but the couple i rent from are moving to a smaller space at the beginning of March. I don't have anywhere to go from here but would of course spend the next month searching for somewhere to stay, but it's all very unknowable and murky at this point. Either way, any funds raised will still go to housing or acquiring shelter somehow. Facebook Messenger conversation between Aurora Eloise and Nat: Nat: ok thanks! I hope with 3 (edited to add: now down to 2) days to go we can get you there. There have been several folks really advocating you and loudly sharing your posts, including one person who's donated to you more than once already. Another friend is sharing through her fundraising network. you've got a committed team behind you! Aurora: That's so amazing. Really, I'm so touched. I had no idea. I'm so grateful for you all. Thank you, and please send my thanks to the others who are helping. Your time and energy are such valuable resourcesz and it means so much to me that you are spending them on me.
Nat
@nat@kind.social

A solo parent asked what they can do to resist ICE without putting themselves in the line of fire, knowing that their death would orphan their kid. Here are a few ideas.

#ice #alexpretti #reneenicolegood #minnesota #minneapolis #mpls #resistance #fascism #trump #gestapo

Facebook comment by Nat Oleander Smith Mutual aid. Support protesters, bail funds, immigrant defense funds, people buying groceries. Provide childcare for others in the movement. Wear a mask & practice pandemic precautions to stop the spread of illnesses harming immigrants in detention & causing chronic illness that weakens the resistance. Get to know your neighbors and coordinate networks of care and support. Ask what your POC friends need. Ask what your immigrant friends need. Take care of your own nervous system and co-regulate with your kids.
Nat
@nat@kind.social

Fantastic news! In addition to donations, Aurora rec'd $300 in financial aid toward getting back into assisted living. Also, the deadline has been extended to Jan 30. Which makes this goal VERY achievable! Ty for cont'd support!!!

746/2413

PayPal.me/melissarainbow
AuroraEloise on Venmo
$AuroraEloise on CashApp

#disabled #disability #mutualaidrequest #disabilitycrowdfund #disabilitycommunity #helpfolkslive2026 #begpost #crowdfund #disabilityjustice #solidarity #housing

Nat
@nat@kind.social

EMERGENCY #MUTUALAID - get blind wheelchair user back into assisted living

The good news—we reached the halfway point!!

The bad news—it's taken 7 weeks to get this far and we have only FIVE DAYS left.

We need a huge push to get Aurora over the line. She is NOT safe if she ends up out on the street again, y'all.

1279/2414

PayPal.me/melissarainbow
AuroraEloise Venmo
$AuroraEloise CashApp

#disabled #disability #disabilitymutualaid #disabilitycrowdfund #helpfolkslive2026 #mutualaidrequest

Facebook message text: Yes, I'm so sorry. There's been a winter storm that knocked out my power for a couple of days. It got restored very early this morning. I'm so sorry for my lack of contact but I am so damn grateful for you, thank you for staying up on this for me. We've raised $1,224. I still need $1,190. I have until Friday the 30th at the end of the business day. I'll be doing what I can over here and keep you updated when things change. 💜
Nat
@nat@kind.social

EMERGENCY #MUTUALAID REQUEST

Friends, I'm $140 short on a bill due today. As a DV survivor trying to protect my toddler, almost all of the money I've raised in recent months has gone toward legal bills. All of your support is SO appreciated—this community is everything 💞💞

0/140

venmo/cashapp @ natsmith89
paypal.me/natoleander

#mutualaidrequest #helpfolkslive2026 #crowdfund #crowdfunding #disabledmutualaid #transmutualaid #queermutualaid #disabledcrowdfund #donation #fundraising

Nat
@nat@kind.social

#MUTUALAID UPDATE

25/1500 Car fund
5100/6000 Legal fund
50/6000 Safe housing fund

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car

https://paypal.me/natoleander

venmo/cashapp @ natsmith89

https://kind.social/@nat/115770331514741936

#MutualAidRequest #queermutualaid #transmutualaid #transcrowdfund #disabilitymutualaid #disabledmutualaid #helpfolkslive2025 #lgbtq #helpfolkslive2026 #begpost #help #crowdfund #disabilitycrowdfund #crowdfunding #fundraising #fundraiser #lgbt #genderfluid #queer #nonbinary #parent #support #community

| was hoping to use the latest donation toward car insurance, but the check from my DV org toward legal bills will take a few weeks to clear. So all my cash is going toward my lawyer for today's bill. We're also in a housing crunch because our current situation is not sustainable, and none of the transitional DV programs I've applied to have had availability yet. | really need to get a plan (and cash) together in the next few weeks so we can get into safe & stable housing. I'm immensely grateful for the incredible support we've received this year! Y'all are literal lifesavers and there's no way we could have done this without you. You can always give directly or support by becoming a paid subscriber of my newsletter, Impure Leftist.
Nat
@nat@kind.social

#MUTUALAID FOR DV SURVIVOR & TODDLER

Today I had to reschedule an appointment for Assata bc the car I was counting on using ended up not being available at the last minute. I still can't afford car insurance for a free car.

25/1500 Car fund
5100/6000 Legal fund
50/6000 Safe housing fund

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car
https://paypal.me/natoleander
venmo/cashapp @ natsmith89

#MutualAidRequest #queermutualaid #transmutualaid #transcrowdfund #disabilitymutualaid #disabledmutualaid #helpfolkslive2025 #lgbtq

Nat
@nat@kind.social

URGENT #MUTUALAID UPDATE - 2 weeks left to get disabled friend back into assisted living!!

$2,030 needed by Jan 16 to get a blind wheelchair user back into assisted living after insurance nightmare kicked her out. She's lost out on 2 past opportunities bc she didn't have the money. Please donate what you can & boost often!!

746/2413

PayPal.me/melissarainbow
AuroraEloise on Venmo
$AuroraEloise on CashApp

#disabled #disability #mutualaidrequest #disabilitycrowdfund #disabilitycommunity

Nat
@nat@kind.social

Fantastic news! In addition to donations, Aurora rec'd $300 in financial aid toward getting back into assisted living. Also, the deadline has been extended to Jan 30. Which makes this goal VERY achievable! Ty for cont'd support!!!

746/2413

PayPal.me/melissarainbow
AuroraEloise on Venmo
$AuroraEloise on CashApp

#disabled #disability #mutualaidrequest #disabilitycrowdfund #disabilitycommunity #helpfolkslive2026 #begpost #crowdfund #disabilityjustice #solidarity #housing

Nat
@nat@kind.social

We have been remarkably blessed this year, so all I want for hexmas is to get my friend Aurora back into (desperately needed!) assisted living. Aurora is a survivor of cancer, many forms of abuse, and a car accident that broke both legs. She's also blind. And she is far more resilient than any human should ever have to be.

If you have a little extra to share today, can you send it her way? I'd love to help her reach her goal today!!

#disabled #disability #mutualaid

https://kind.social/@nat/115653487212358262

Nat
@nat@kind.social

URGENT #MUTUALAID UPDATE - 2 weeks left to get disabled friend back into assisted living!!

$2,030 needed by Jan 16 to get a blind wheelchair user back into assisted living after insurance nightmare kicked her out. She's lost out on 2 past opportunities bc she didn't have the money. Please donate what you can & boost often!!

746/2413

PayPal.me/melissarainbow
AuroraEloise on Venmo
$AuroraEloise on CashApp

#disabled #disability #mutualaidrequest #disabilitycrowdfund #disabilitycommunity

Nat
@nat@kind.social

#MUTUALAID UPDATE

Y'allll what?! Someone just donated $1k to our DV survivor fund 😭😭😭😭 I've been incredibly stressed about housing & transportation lately and this is life-changing! What an incredible Solstice/hexmas gift!

500/1500 Car fund
4000/4000 Legal fund
600/6000 Safe housing fund

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car
https://paypal.me/natoleander
venmo/cashapp @ natsmith89

#MutualAidRequest #queermutualaid #transmutualaid #transcrowdfund #disabilitymutualaid #disabledmutualaid #helpfolkslive2025

Nat
@nat@kind.social

#MUTUALAID UPDATE

25/1500 Car fund
5100/6000 Legal fund
50/6000 Safe housing fund

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car

https://paypal.me/natoleander

venmo/cashapp @ natsmith89

https://kind.social/@nat/115770331514741936

#MutualAidRequest #queermutualaid #transmutualaid #transcrowdfund #disabilitymutualaid #disabledmutualaid #helpfolkslive2025 #lgbtq #helpfolkslive2026 #begpost #help #crowdfund #disabilitycrowdfund #crowdfunding #fundraising #fundraiser #lgbt #genderfluid #queer #nonbinary #parent #support #community

| was hoping to use the latest donation toward car insurance, but the check from my DV org toward legal bills will take a few weeks to clear. So all my cash is going toward my lawyer for today's bill. We're also in a housing crunch because our current situation is not sustainable, and none of the transitional DV programs I've applied to have had availability yet. | really need to get a plan (and cash) together in the next few weeks so we can get into safe & stable housing. I'm immensely grateful for the incredible support we've received this year! Y'all are literal lifesavers and there's no way we could have done this without you. You can always give directly or support by becoming a paid subscriber of my newsletter, Impure Leftist.
Nat
@nat@kind.social

#MUTUALAID UPDATE - housing need for blind wheelchair user

Almost 10% of the way to getting a disabled cancer survivor back into assisted living after an insurance nightmare kicked her out!! Please share widely 💞💞

259/2413

PayPal.me/melissarainbow
AuroraEloise on Venmo
$AuroraEloise on CashApp

#housing #disability #disabilitycrowdfund #disabilitymutualaid #disabled #DisabilityJustice #helpfolkslive2025 #helpfolkslive2026 #mutualaidrequest

Nat
@nat@kind.social

We have been remarkably blessed this year, so all I want for hexmas is to get my friend Aurora back into (desperately needed!) assisted living. Aurora is a survivor of cancer, many forms of abuse, and a car accident that broke both legs. She's also blind. And she is far more resilient than any human should ever have to be.

If you have a little extra to share today, can you send it her way? I'd love to help her reach her goal today!!

#disabled #disability #mutualaid

https://kind.social/@nat/115653487212358262

Nat
@nat@kind.social

#MUTUALAID - urgent housing need for blind wheelchair user

Aurora has been going thru a LOT and she didn't want to bother me to ask me to post here. She was kicked out of assisted living and needs $2,413 by Jan 16 to get safe housing again.

40/2413

PayPal.me/melissarainbow
AuroraEloise on Venmo
$AuroraEloise on CashApp

#disabled #disability #disabilitymutualaid #disabilitycrowdfund #helpfolkslive2025 #helpfolkslive2026 #begpost #disabilityjustice #housing

So I've been pretty hush hush about the state of my life over the last several months. Shame, embarrassment, the usual suspects. It's a long story but to try and sum it up quickly, a sudden change in my insurance coverage forced me to have to move out of the assisted living community. This was 7-8 months ago. I was unhoused until mid October. I found a room to rent while I waited for space to open up at any of the facilities that DO accept my insurance. Well that day came about two weeks ago. I was at the top of the wait list at two facilities. One had immediate availability, but because I couldn't afford initial costs and move-in fees, they had no choice but to move me to the bottom of the list again. The other place is a little more flexible, thankfully. They had a list of projected dates that their open units would be ready ready for new tenants, and there are three in early to mid January. Which is good, because the financial hurdle is massive, and I could use all the time I can get. To say I'm already penny pinching would be an understanding. I do the best I can with my disability income, but there hasn't been a month in the last five years that it was enough to live on. That being said, saving is next to impossible for me at this time. So... I'm in a bit of a pickle. 😫 I've spent the last couple of weeks reaching out to charities, non-profits, and any place I can find that offer financial aid. It's been no at every turn. The holiday season is a very high demand time for resources and assistance, so the places that aren't already out of funds aren't able to help, either, as they prioritize families with children under 18, and I can't be mad at that. But I do feel a little lost, and hopelessness is starting to creep in around the edges. So I thought it was the right time to ask for help. I need to raise $2,413 by approximately January 16th. The initial out of pocket expenses are a lot, but ultimately this is the best, safest, and most stable living arrangement for me with the state of my health, plus, in the long-term, I will actually be living in a place with manageable rent, based on my income. That, to me, is worth the initial fees. But not being able to afford it means that it's others who have to thick it's worth it, too, which I really hope is the case. This is crucial to my quality of life. Most of the world is not built for the blind or those in wheelchairs. Anyway, that's what's going on. I would appreciate any help more than I can articulate, should it come, but I will do my best.
Nat
@nat@kind.social

#MUTUALAID UPDATE

Amazing news—a DV org is contributing $3550 to my legal bills (sent directly to my lawyer)!! That means I can finally make headway on housing & transportation needs 💞💞 Right now, car insurance is most pressing.

40/1500 Car fund
4000/4000 Legal fund
0/6000 Safe housing fund

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car
https://paypal.me/natoleander
venmo/cashapp @ natsmith89

#MutualAidRequest #queermutualaid #transmutualaid #transcrowdfund #disabilitymutualaid #disabledmutualaid #helpfolkslive2025

Nat
@nat@kind.social

#MUTUALAID UPDATE

Y'allll what?! Someone just donated $1k to our DV survivor fund 😭😭😭😭 I've been incredibly stressed about housing & transportation lately and this is life-changing! What an incredible Solstice/hexmas gift!

500/1500 Car fund
4000/4000 Legal fund
600/6000 Safe housing fund

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car
https://paypal.me/natoleander
venmo/cashapp @ natsmith89

#MutualAidRequest #queermutualaid #transmutualaid #transcrowdfund #disabilitymutualaid #disabledmutualaid #helpfolkslive2025